Annie Vesper

Hi! I'm Annie, nice to meet you. :)

***IMPORTANT:***

* OUTCALL only
* I do NOT drive, so depending on how far away the meeting place is, I may ask for a transport allowance for an Uber
* I am less likely to agree to meet someone who is either quite young, or quite a lot older than me, because discretion becomes more difficult. However, if you are a great communicator, and open to following some suggestions on how we can be more discreet, we should be fine.

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"Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage." – Anaïs Nin

If you would like to meet, please read all information on this site before contacting me. Being selective, I prioritize meeting attentive, detail-oriented men.

*** A different kind of space… ***

There’s everyday life, and then there’s fantasy. But there’s yet another space between the two. Between the daily routine and the wild unknown, you long for mystery but at the same time treasure stability and safety. You’re after something intangible that can’t be ticked off a bucket list. You desire to architect it hand in hand with your own Venus beside you – this Venus who understands you – to feel the interlacing rhythm of authentic connection, drumming with passion. However brief or extended you would like it to be, you dream of an intimacy beyond expectation.

I create this space.

*** Who am I, anyway? ***

“Vesper” is for the evening, and also a bit of a wink to Bondian lore.

I am a generalist in life who loves to be well-rounded.

My hobbies/passions include reading, producing electronic music and abstract 3D digital art, cinema, computer stuff, traveling, dancing, fashion and beauty, and writing.

A classically trained (former) musician, a former radio disc jockey, and winner of some writing prizes during my student days, I have always treasured an opportunity to engage with art and culture. More recently, I have sold both NFT- and non-NFT art I created.

A former vagabond, I have spent many years living in 7 different countries, and have visited 7 more. Europe, Asia, Australia. I speak and read Japanese at a functional/conversational level.

In terms of culinary delights, I love exploring new gastronomies, and particularly adore Japanese cuisine. I accrued a wealth of knowledge on nihonryōri during my time in Japan, including how best to savor it, and the rich history and etiquette behind it.

My love of nature has led to my summiting Mount Fuji, snorkeling the Great Barrier Reef, and wandering the beaches of Thailand.

A semi-guilty penchant: the adrenaline-soaked bliss of a ride on the back of a motorcycle in the tropics. Even better if it’s a ride to the seaside.

Most of all, I love sharing experiences and life stories with an intimate confidant. There's nothing more wild and free than shedding the artifice of daily life, and talking openly and un-hindered with a special companion.

*** Health is Wealth ***

I like to work out, eat fairly sensibly usually, and sleep like a cat.

I do NOT engage in especially risky activities, and I get tested regularly to be sure my health is pristine.

I am a warm and clear communicator (you'll never be at a loss wondering what I'm thinking).

I will make sure that our time spent together is safe, sane, and thoroughly discreet.

*** Screening ***

Screening is not optional. You must screen *before* meeting. To screen, I need:

- Your phone number (not a burner)
- A photo of your ID, with all info completely visible/readable
- A selfie, with you holding your valid ID. The photo should be high enough resolution that I can read your ID when I zoom in.

*** Thank you, I look forward to meeting you! ***

More professional photos can be found on my website.
Candid photos, along with my errant thoughts, may be found on my X and Bluesky profiles. Don't be shy!